Many of my clients report lack of intimacy in their marital relationship and doing acts of kindness, noticing and complimenting one another on small tokens of care can assist in helping couples get what they want.
We as humans seem to be quick to criticize and judge and slower to offer affirmations and compliments.
Research suggests that each person in the marriage should offer at least three kind affirming comments daily. These must be honest and genuine and not sugary sweet or superficial.
Think of some things which you appreciate and love about your partner and tell them daily, just how much it means to you.
You may grow closer together.