Can you hear me? Are you listening to me?

Communication is a complex entity which seems to sometimes create difficulties in marriage.

I thought you said ___.
Well I heard___.
You weren't listening to me.
You never hear me.
I wish we could communicate, this is so frustrating!

Sound familiar? Do you and your partner experience muddy conversations which turn into arguments?

I encourage you to seeking couples counseling and your relationship dynamics will change in a more positive way.

Joan Leary, Licensed Professional Counselor can assist you with new communication techniques.

205-529-5565

Thinking about marriage?

Why would pre-marital counseling be helpful to a couple?

There are many layers of life experiences, family of origin issues, personality qualities and expectations which we bring to relationships. Oftentimes couples experience communication issues when considering marriage which may become more exacerbated with the stressors of planning a wedding.

I see couples in my office where several common issues are addressed, however my approach is a bit different. I assess the cultural implications which a couple brings to their relationship which might include; socio- economic issues, educational levels, family dynamics, work stressors, religion and spirituality, role expectations for the husband and wife, customs and holiday traditions, hopes and dreams for family and children.

Relationships are complex. I encourage couples who are considering marriage to give themselves the gift of Pre-Marital counseling where issues can be addressed prior to making a life long commitment.

My clients express gratitude to me for assisting in the exploration of their future life commitment. Counseling works to achieve addressing difficult and challenging areas before they occur.

Call Joan Leary, Licensed Therapist in Birmingham, Alabama. 205-529-5565

Love has no desire but to fulfill itself. To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving. ~
Kahlil Gibran

This lovely heart is from Studio Margot.

I was driving down the road today when a bumper sticker caught my eye, "Open Hearted and Open Minded."

This allowed me to ponder the meaning of someone truly being open, accepting and loving to oneself and to others. With all of the negativity we see in the media how might one stay grounded, spiritually connected, positive and "open" to life experiences?

With my whole heart I live to provide my loved ones with unconditional love and acceptance... Is this feasible?

Please share with me the ways in which you see yourself being open hearted and open minded. Modeling these principles may be contagious.