"Forgive Yourself For The Blindness That Put You In The Path Of Those Who Betrayed You"
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Did you enter into a relationship with good intentions and an honest heart only to find yourself with a person who was dishonorable and deceitful? It may be difficult to reconcile the fact that the person to whom you made yourself vulnerable was not really the person you thought they were.
This leads to cognitive dissonance where ones head and heart seem to be at odds. How does one make sense of all of this?
Self- forgiveness may be a healthy route for you to realize that the betrayal was the other persons decision and it ultimately became a gift to you to disengage from the relationship. Forgive oneself for trusting another who betrayed you.
Without risking vulnerability one would never know the possibilities of love.